Christian Purity – Sixth and Ninth Commandments

Life Night Outline

Goal of this Night

The goal of this night is to help the teens understand the virtues of chastity and purity and their responsibility to practice those virtues in all relationships. This night will also challenge the teens to protect their sexuality and treat it as a gift from God.

About this night

This night will have the theme of “gift,” beginning with the environment and the opening games. The night will begin with two fun games that will involve the teens and then transition into the Proclaim for the night. This talk will unpack what it truly means to live a life of purity. After the Proclaim, guys and girls will break into separate groups to discuss what was presented in the talk. It will give an opportunity for each group to open up with their peers of the same sex. The night will close with each group writing and sharing a prayer that they wrote for the opposite sex. Also, each person will be  given a prayer partner, whom they will commit to pray for during the upcoming week.

Parental Notice

At this week’s Life Night we will be celebrating and discussing a gift we have been given by God: the gift of our sexuality. It will challenge each teen to treasure this God-given gift by living a life of purity and chastity in every relationship that they have. Spend some time this week praying for your teen(s), asking God to help them protect their purity and chastity in all relationships. To help you start the discussion of purity and chastity, here are a few questions:

  1. What did you learn about God’s view of purity that you didn’t already know?
  2. It what ways have you seen your peers use their sexuality to gain attention?
  3. What does it mean to you to be pure of heart? Do you struggle to live out purity of heart?


The environment for this night will be simple – gifts, gifts, and more gifts. As the teens enter the meeting space, have the doors and surrounding area wrapped like a big present. On the door, have a large gift tag that says “To: You, From: God.” Inside the meeting space, have piles of gift-wrapped boxes of all different sizes all around the room.

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