Goal of this Life Night: The goal of this Life Night is to help the teens understand that their words are powerful and that we all need to watch what we say to one another. This night will also look at how our speech can affect other people in both a positive and a negative way. finally, this night will address how our speech can shape our Christian identity. About this Life Night: The Life Night begins with a fun competition to determine which teens are the best at reciting simple tongue twisters.