As Core Teams and youth ministers we know that going to our teens’ events can make a big impact.  After a number of years in youth ministry, I think I have now been to nearly every sporting event the public school system has to offer. I have also seen some amazing plays, moving orchestra concerts and “interesting” talent shows.  I keep going because I know the impact that showing up can have in relational ministry.  Nevertheless, it’s taken me a lot of trial and error to get the hang of